feat: add observability stack and background task infrastructure

Add OpenTelemetry instrumentation with distributed tracing and metrics:
- Structured JSON logging with trace context correlation
- Auto-instrumentation for FastAPI, asyncpg, httpx, redis
- OTLP exporter for traces and Prometheus metrics endpoint

Implement Celery worker and notification task system:
- Celery app with Redis/SQS broker support and configurable queues
- Notification tasks for incident fan-out, webhooks, and escalations
- Pluggable TaskQueue abstraction with in-memory driver for testing

Add Grafana observability stack (Loki, Tempo, Prometheus, Grafana):
- OpenTelemetry Collector for receiving OTLP traces and logs
- Tempo for distributed tracing backend
- Loki for log aggregation with Promtail DaemonSet
- Prometheus for metrics scraping with RBAC configuration
- Grafana with pre-provisioned datasources and API overview dashboard
- Helm templates for all observability components

Enhance application infrastructure:
- Global exception handlers with structured ErrorResponse schema
- Request logging middleware with timing metrics
- Health check updated to verify task queue connectivity
- Non-root user in Dockerfile for security
- Init containers in Helm deployments for dependency ordering
- Production Helm values with autoscaling and retention policies

observability/grafana/provisioning/dashboards/dashboards.yaml

@@ -0,0 +1,12 @@
+apiVersion: 1
+
+providers:
+  - name: 'default'
+    orgId: 1
+    folder: 'IncidentOps'
+    folderUid: 'incidentops'
+    type: file
+    disableDeletion: false
+    editable: true
+    options:
+      path: /var/lib/grafana/dashboards